Its so strange how one can do things unselfishly to help others; however, what you meant for good can be received by others as something negative.
Have you ever felt led to give godly advice and then had that person rect to you in an inappropriate manner? Have you ever tried to help someone who didn't want your help? When our efforts get shot down it makes one feel like why even make an effort to help others.
Resist the urge to give up on getting involve and helping others. The word tells us to Love God, with your whole being—all you’ve got,"with all your passion and prayer and muscle and intelligence" (Luke 10:27 The Message) and, love your neighbor as yourself. Love is the bottom line!
We are to do things for others because we love the Lord, not just because you seek some sort of reward. The Lord wants us to help others just because we love HIM and want to please him.